How to help children learn how to cope, treatment with strangers? How do you become a reasonably prudent without causing the fear and panic?
Condition abducted or enticed young children by many different methods have recently become the wake-up call for parents and society. There are many forms that the seducer often applied as sweet words, the subtle trap … but then again carefree young children do not realize the dangers are lurking.
How to teach your child how to cope, processed to meet these situations? How do you become a reasonably prudent without causing the fear and panic?
Teach children to master the basics
Teach children how to behave with strangers
Simply explain to your child understand that in any case you should not follow a stranger is enough. Illustration
Explain that not all strangers are kind to children. Adults should choose words carefully and use words that are sure you can understand. Maybe I’ll ask questions like, “If you go with an unknown person would do?”. Let’s stop thinking terrified child threatened by terrible stories about children being attacked, kidnapped and murdered. That just makes children more fear and to a certain extent can make you never daring to step out of the door again. Instead, let’s give a simple explanation such as: “The stranger could make me hurt you.” Tell the children understand that we can not recognize a stranger is bad, kind or trench when looking at their launch.
However, there is no reason why the prohibition children never to talk to strangers is impossible. Simply explain to your child understand that in any case you should not follow a stranger is enough.
Additionally, parents should give some practical examples like: “Do not embrace the hand of whom you do not know while on the road or the park”, “Never accept candy from children or not know when their parents are not there, “” Do not ever sit in the car or cars of people that I do not know “.
These specific examples it will make the matter clear than ever. Remind the child often and if you have any questions then let me ask many as you want.
When you need help
Talking to your children about what to do when that’s the case have been separated from the mother while in the mall or supermarket. Make sure you can read the phone number of parent and address when asked. And in case you look around and do not see you in the store, told me to go to the nearest checkout counter and told “the levy” I lost it. If you can not find any shop, ask the help of the police or someone uniformed agencies.
Moreover, the discussion of privacy with children is also a very necessary thing. Let’s emphasize that no one has the right to touch you if you do not like or feel uncomfortable. Children can totally understand the hugs from parents is what may be acceptable, but it is impossible for a stranger.
Parents should also explain to you know nobody is allowed to touch sensitive areas on the human body and must give parents know right away if that happens. Explaining how children understand between parents and children should not keep secrets about anything, even if other people have caught the right to remain silent about what has been done with children.